June 23, 2009

Some updates…

I figured because it has been a month since my last post I should probably do some updates. 

We moved almost all of our things into the new house on May 25th. When we arrived we found that there had been a fire in the laundry room. P5250066

Thankfully it was contained to just the one room, so we thought we would just have to remodel the laundry room, get the A/C cleaned out and we’d be moved in by the end of the week. WRONG! Here we are a month later, living with my mom and her husband while the house is pretty much completely remodeled from floor to ceiling. All the word that we did the month before we moved in had to be completely re-done, with the exception of the floors. They will need to be resealed though. It has been increasingly frustrating to be living under some one else’s roof, not having all our our belonging, and not knowing where a good majority of them are, but in the end this has been a huge blessing. Our new house, which was built in 1997, will be pretty close to entirely brand new when we move in this weekend! I picked out my new washer and dryer last night, as well as al new light fixtures and ceiling fans. We are also getting new vertical blinds in the living room ( they were the old school cloth material before… YUCK!) New hardware for the kitchen cabinets. The insurance company is footing the bill for this entire remodel and we had the funds to re-do the whole kitchen but decided to put that off until a later date just so we can get in our house before the kids start college :0)

Because we didn’t think that we would be out of the house for more than a week, we left all of our furniture and everything in the house. This caused everything to smell like a fire place. Part of the renovation was to have everything professionally cleaned. I’m really hoping this worked well because having our furniture smell like that kind of irks me. Before any of this happened though we were planing on having out seafoam couches cleaned, so I am stocked about seeing them and hoping they look brand new again. 

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Change of subject

This post is turning out much longer than I had anticipated. One positive thing about staying at my mom’s is she has her own personal pool. The kids and I have been taking major advantage of that. Trey has been able to swim since he was 15 months old but kind of developed some bad habits in the last year. In the past month he has taught himself how to use his arms when swimming, come up for air with out having to roll over into a float, do minimal tricks when jumping inP5150179 and starting to dive down to pick up toys. Leilani is also pretty much fearless in the water. She hasn’t been sticking to the swim-float-swim routine exactly but she is a fish regardless. She even jumps in off the hot tub as well. P5150177

In other Leilani news, she is talking up a storm. probably 80% of it is babbling but she is speaking pretty clearly for a lot of other words like I love you, Please, Thank you, Trey, Lani, swim, Brooklyn and so on. She is also doing great going to the bathroom on the big potty. I have contemplated doing our 3 day potty training on her while we are at my mom’s on the tile but I just don’t think she is quite there yet. Maybe another 2 months.

I think that’s it for now. We are FINALLY moving into our home this weekend and I could not be more thrilled. I’m hoping to have a open house/house warming with a month or so. I’ll keep you posted :0)

STAY COOL!

May 24, 2009

ABC’s

I saw this on Katie’s blog and decided maybe it would be a fun way to get myself back into the swing of things. Not that I haven’t had plenty to blog about lately, just lacking the motivation and the time.

this went around FB a few months ago and i’ve been waiting for a good time to put mine here.  this is a good time because i want to write a post but really have nothing to say.  feeling lazy and tired.

A – Age: 25 and a half…. tomorrow is my half birthday, growing up my best friends and I actually celebrated our half birthdays… we should bring that back :0)

B – Bed size: king and it still doesn’t feel big enough lol

C – Chore you hate: all of them… haha… mostly mopping… very much looking forward to not having to mop wood floors!

D – Dog’s name: Brooklyn Sky

E – Essential start your day item: My kids… they are pretty much the only constant

F – Favorite color: Sea foam green

G – Gold or Silver: White Gold

H – Height: close to 5′10

I – Instruments you play: nothing… i took lessons for piano, drums and trombone

J – Job title: Domestic Engineer 

K – Kid(s): Trey (3), Leilani (19 mos.)

L – Living arrangements: Not soon enough… 3 bedroom 2 bath 2 car garage with a fenced in yard with a swing set, two streets away from a huge park…. ahhh I can’t wait!

M – Mom’s name: Sara

N – Nicknames: Lyss, Lyssa, Aly G, Alice, Lissy loo loo… the list goes on and on pretty much all annoying though a

O – Overnight hospital stay other than own birth: um, I think I stayed overnight when I had my tonsils taken out but I don’t know.. and giving birth twice

P – Pet Peeve: ohh I have to many to pick just one, but one that has really been bothering me this week is the toilet seat not being put back DOWN!!!

Q – Quote from a movie: ”There’s a monster outside my window, Can I have a glass of water?”

R – Right or left handed: right

S – Siblings: Grant

T – Time you wake up: I’ve been waking up at 7 to get the kids up and ready for the gym by 8 but this week that got put on the back burner because of colds, out of town guests, and more and more house renovations.

U- Underwear: none right now… ditto Katie lol

V – Vegetable you dislike: collard green however you spell it… just the smell makes me want to gag

W – Ways you run late: my husband’s lack of respect for other people’s time ( should have put this under P)… or maybe Trey has to go potty right as we are walking out the door.

X – X-rays you’ve had: teeth, wrist, spine, ankle, knee, shoulder

Y – Yummy food you make: corn or potato casserole

Z – Zoo: too hot and my kids aren’t that interested.

April 27, 2009

8 Things

Taking a few minutes to relax after a hectic last few days.

8 Things I’m Looking Forward To:

  1. The last day of school! I started my last week today! wuhoo. Praying I pass my budget class.
  2. Everything being packed.
  3. The floor being installed and the paint on the walls in the new house!
  4. Spending quality time with my family and not having to worry about what I have due on what day and all the other stressful thoughts that come along with school. 
  5. Joining the gym next Monday! Katie, maybe we can coordinate and be work out buddies and hit up the beach sometimes together. Well once I’ve worked out long enough to be comfortable going to the beach lol
  6. Going to the doctor for the first time since Leilani was born. Hoping to get my thyroid issues taken care of. ugh!!
  7. SWIMMING with my kids!!! It’s my favorite part of the summer. It bring me so much joy to see my little ones swimming better than their daddy :0)
  8. Being moved into our new place, everything in it’s place and planning a house warming/graduation party!

8 Things I Did Yesterday:

  1. Slept in! My mom kept the kids Saturday and Sunday night so we slept in until 10 am!!!
  2. Took Trey to the mall while Lani napped at my mom’s.
  3. Bought a pretty cute dress for a wedding from Forever 21 for under $30. Dressy enough to wear to a wedding but still casual enough to rock whenever I want. I’m majorly into dresses right now as pants are NOT my friends!!!
  4. Enjoyed the quiet while Trey and Louie napped so I could get dolled up for the wedding. Lani was still with my mom so I took my time to pamper myself.
  5. Drove to Miami for the wedding of a college buddy of ours. It was beautiful!
  6. Fought back tears at the beauty of the wedding plus the memories of all our good times in college. 
  7. Received one of the greatest/weirdest compliments of my life haha. The groom told me he remembers the first time he saw me 7 years ago at the beach and he and his buddies thought I was sexy. He then went on to say how lucky my husband was to have caught me and that he has turned out to be a great dad. It made me blush but it was also one of the most nicest things he’s ever said to me :0)
  8. Danced my butt off, had a great time with old friends and really enjoyed the weekend with my hubby and very little time with the kids, even though I missed them like crazy.

8 Things I Wish I Could Do: ( I’m gonna steal a couple of yours Katie)

  1. Cook
  2. hire a maid!!! I actually am going to have to when we move out of Bruce’s but I would love to on a permanent basis. 
  3. figure out how to be really good at “call of duty”, This is also Louie’s new obsession, not that we have the time to be playing right now and he has been asking me to play with him. It gives me motion sickness.
  4. get a mani and a pedi once a week
  5. get my 2002 body back. A buddy at the wedding yesterday suggested we all join biggest loser lol
  6. Travel… a lot… there are 3 places I REALLY want to go.. Hawaii, Alaska and Australia. Plus one of my good friends and I want to travel to all the places from the Beach Boys song Kokomo. 
  7. Eat healthier because its easy not because I have to.
  8. Spend more time with my girlfriends

8 Shows I Watch: I can only put 8??? lol I’ll group them together based on genre lol

  1. One Tree Hill & Gossip Girl
  2. Grey’s & Private Practice
  3. LOST & Survivor & Real World/Road Rules Challenges
  4. jon&kate plus 8
  5. Entourage
  6. american idol and america’s next top model 
  7. Law and Order SVU & CSI: NY
  8. Brothers and Sisters

March 31, 2009

3…really???

Happy 3rd Birthday BABY  Big Boy! I still cannot believe my precious little first born baby is 3 years old today… can some one pinch me???dsc01248

March 27, 2009

Quite Possibly the Craziest Weekend Ever

I’ve got an extremely busy weekend coming up! So busy that I can’t seem to calm my thoughts enough to fall asleep even though I am unbelievably tired! So I thought I’d write a post about all that I have to do.

I have not had my house to myself in almost 3 weeks. My sister-in-law and her son are staying with us indefintely so for the most part, my house in not my home right now. EVerything is out of order, including sleeping arrangements and schedules. Trey and Lani have been sharing a room for almost 2 weeks now and it is taking a toll on their attitudes. Regardless of the bad side effects, it has been great spending quality time with Christine. She has matured into a responsible young woman and I am so proud of her. Plus she has been a great help around the house. I know this isn’t really part of what needs to be done, it just adds to my manic state.

As I mentioned in a previous post, we close on our house, well technically today since it’s 1:00am. We close at 2:00pm. I have rehearsal and rehearsal dinner for my best friend’s wedding starting at 5:30. Louie has to take Brooklyn to get her check-up sometime tomorrow but I have a feeling it might end up being pushed off on me, hopefully not.

I need to figure out a way to get Trey to take a nap tomorrow, get to sleep early and be well rested come 4:30 saturday bc I will be mortified if he continues his outrageous behavior during the wedding ceremony… he’s the ring bearer. Speaking of which I need to iron his outfit. Today I had to go pick up new reefs for the both of us for the wedding… (it’s at the beach).

Saturday I’m getting my hair done at 11:30, then make-up at my cousins house, then to another bridesmaid’s house for preparation and pictures. I haven’t decided if I should bring trey with me for these pictures or leave him at home to make sure he is well rested. I also need to get my car cleaned before al of this because I am the bride’s ride in place of  a limo. After pictures I have to swing back by my house and pick you Louie, or convince my mom and step dad to pick him up. Then it’s off the wedding. There’s something about weddings that make me so nervous, plus the fact my son is in it too… i could just bite off all of my freshly manicured nails. I’m sure I will have to help clean up and tear down the reception. 

Sunday I will have to finish up any schoolwork that is not done yet, do laundry and ironing for the week as well as try to squeeze in time for some friends that want to come meet Brooklyn. Church has been taking the back burner since the beginning of the year because of sickness, now that the kids are finally better I am just getting more and more stuff piled on my plate, such as the unexpected arrival of my sister in law.

We have no plans for our anniversary and Trey’s actual birthday as of yet, but I am sure we will do something on both days. Either way, just more things to remember and organize and juggle.

I am longing for the next 5 weeks to fly by so that I can be done with school and packing to move into our first home! Oh and hopefully by then Brooklyn will be trained. Speaking of training, Leilani is doing pretty well with PRE-potty training stuff. She loves to go peepee on the potty so I’m looking forward to training her in the near future.

Well that’s all I can remember that I have to do for the time being. Good night!

Oh and if you guys have a chance check out Mycharmingkids.net and lift them up in prayer! It’s a pretty amazing story if you aren’t familiar with it.

March 26, 2009

Brooklyn Sky

Thought I would give everyone, besides Tina who was here when she came home for the 1st time, their first look at the newest addition to the Ramos clan.

Brooklyn Sky. photo-61

She is our 10 week old boxer puppy. Louie has been begging for a dog since Leilani was born and I always told him I had 3 stipulations… Trey needed to be talking, Leilani needed to be walking and we needed a house with a yard. Well the last of the three things is becoming official as of 2:00pm on Friday so we took the plunge. Like the process of deciding on names for our kids, we couldn’t agree. Although we both really liked the first 2 names we came up with… Pebbles and Sky. I liked Pebbles because my best friends dog’s name is Bam Bam and I really like naming dogs names that you can’t use on humans. And Sky was just something simple, unique and pretty except Louie heard a story about another dog name Sky and changed his mind. Louie has always wanted to name something Brooklyn and I had to fight tooth and nail to not have it be one of our kids’ names and I forgot that I made a promise that we could name our dog Brooklyn as long as I didn’t have to name my kid that… so alas, her name is Brooklyn… but it’s already growing on me. The picture really doesn’t do her justice, she is too stinkin’ cute and I can’t get enough of her. Trey loves her and refers to her as “my dog”… “mommy I go kiss MY dog, I go walk MY dog, I go wake up MY dog”. I should video tape him saying this to prove it when he is older and doesn’t want any of the responsibility right?! Leilani on the other hand is going through a rough stage right now. My sister-in-law and her son are staying with us for an extended period of time and I think she is having a hard time not being the baby anymore, now a puppy on top of that… let’s just say she isn’t being very sweet these days no matter how cute she is.

If anyone has any pointers on training and what not… please keep the tips coming. Mommy stuff has come pretty easy to me but dogs are not my area of expertise.

March 19, 2009

Closing Time …

Kathleen, I swear I was coming on to post about our new house and moving when I noticed you wrote a very similar post today as well :0)

Louie and I, (more Louie,less I) have been looking for a house for over a year now. With the market the way it is, the tax credit, the low interest rate and the FHA loans… we had to join the home owners club. Louie has been dead set on buying in a community, like where we live now… in a townhouse. Where I have always wanted to own a house with a yard. I would love to own out in Jupiter Farms with lots of land, but that’s just not possible right now.

We have almost pulled the trigger on like 4 different townhouses but things just never lined up. On February 28th, I was laying in Trey’s bed searcing Yahoo Real Estate while the kids played blocks on the floor and came across a beautiful home in the Heights, in our price range. I e-mailed the link to Louie right away so he called it when he got home later that afternoon. The realtor was shocked that we even found the listing because it didn’t officially go on the market until the following morning, March 1st. We made an appointment and were the 1st ones to see the house, another couple came in while we were there but left rather quickly. We both fell in love and made an offer right then and there. Within 2 days we learned they had accepted our offer and things started to move forward with what looked like a closing date of April 30th. 

Last week my mom and I were talking and she said she was going to be praying that God would either keep the doors open for this house or close them before the process got to far along. The following day we received a call from the realtor that the current owners had found a new house and needed to close on ours much sooner in order to use the equity for the new one. We took that as God’s answer to our prayer… the doors were open… WAY OPEN! 

We’ve already completed the inspection and the appraisal, our interest rate is locked in at an incredibly low rate and we close NEXT FRIDAY! March 27th! 

Even though we close next week, we won’t be moving in until Early-mid May because the sellers won’t be able to move into their new place yet so they will be renting from us. And then after they move out, Louie is going to rip out all the pergo flooring and install the real deal, because lets face it… what kind of hardwood flooring salesman would he be with fake wood floors. I can’t wait to take before and after pictures!!!

My favorite things about our new house is the back yard, with swing set included and the fact that we are only 2 streets away from a great park!!!! I’m looking forward to meeting more moms! Where we live now isn’t exactly family oriented! Oh yea… and a 2 car garage!!!! 

This all seems so surreal, especially how it feels like God totally placed this right in our laps and how quickly everything is falling into place. The realtor keeps telling us how he has never had anything go so smoothly and quickly. There is one thing I am not looking forward to… PACKING for the 9th time in 6 years… but I am so grateful it will be the last time!!!

Please pray for us as we venture in to the new role as home owners! I’m going to have to teach my husband how to mow a lawn! lol

March 2, 2009

Sweet Poem from one of my regulars

I got this poem from the blog that I frequent… My Charming Kids. I thought it was awesome and I had to share it with my fellow mommies.

Song for a Fifth Child.

Mother, O Mother, come shake out your cloth,
Empty the dustpan, poison the moth,
Hang out the washing, make up the bed,
Sew on a button and butter the bread.

Where is the mother whose house is so shocking?
She’s up in the nursery, blissfully rocking.

Oh, I’ve grown as shiftless as Little Boy Blue,
Lullabye, rockabye, lullabye loo.
Dishes are waiting and bills are past due
Pat-a-cake, darling, and peek, peekaboo

The shopping’s not done and there’s nothing for stew
And out in the yard there’s a hullabaloo
But I’m playing Kanga and this is my Roo
Look! Aren’t his eyes the most wonderful hue?
Lullabye, rockaby lullabye loo.

The cleaning and scrubbing can wait till tomorrow
But children grow up as I’ve learned to my sorrow.
So quiet down cobwebs; Dust go to sleep!
I’m rocking my baby and babies don’t keep.

February 27, 2009

More about my husband

Katie had a similar survey as well as an old friend of mine on FB so I decided to combine them… How well do I know my husband? Let’s see shall we...

1. He’s sitting in front of the TV, what is on the screen?
More times than not… ESPN. aside from that its probably either Entourage, Sopranos, 24 or Friday Night Lights

2. You’re out to eat; what kind of dressing does he get on his salad?
Ranch or Caesar 

3. What’s one food he doesn’t like ?
Hard to narrow that down to one, he’s kind of picky. He HATES cinnamon so anything with cinamon

4. You go out to eat. What drink does he order?
Pepsi or Sprite

5. Where did he go to high school?
Christ the Kind and New Utretch

6. What size shoe does he wear?
11 1/2

7. If he was to collect anything, what would it be?
A-Rod and UM stuff

8. What is his favorite type of sandwich?
Yellow american and salami 

9. What would he eat every day if he could?
chicken and cutlets and pretty much anything his grandmother makes

10. What is his favorite cereal?
Frosted Flakes and Capt Crunch

11. What would he never wear?
Skinny jeans

12. What is his favorite sports team?
UM, Giants and Yankees but mostly UM

13. Who did he vote for?
Shockingly, McCain

14. Who is his best friend?
Aside from me :0)… Nelson and Julio

15. What is something you ask him to do that he wishes you wouldn’t do?
Everything, lol

16. What is his heritage?
Puerto Rican

17. You bake him a cake for his birthday; what kind of cake?
He doesn’t like cake, except ice cream cake and Louisiana Crunch Cake

18. Did he play sports in high school?
Baseball and track at one point, oh and he tried out for the basketball team at Christ the King… no chance!

19. What could he spend hours doing?
sitting in front of the tv with the laptop surfing the net for sports stats, craigslist and the daily news

20. What is one unique talent he has?
getting people to give him discounts when he’s shopping

 

21. What is my favorite feature about him:  His eyes and on the rare occasion that he actually, truly uses it, his smile

22. What is my favorite quality about him: His love for our family and his desire to spoil us even if it is a little far fetched from time to time. He works his butt off to do so

23. What is his nickname: Chewy or Ramos

24. What is his favorite color: I’m not sure he has one either… judging by our house, which he pretty much decorated I’d say blues and browns

25. What is his favorite sport:  baseball and football he likes to play flag football now too

26. Who said the “L” word first: he has no recollection of it but he said it first, but i told him I was falling in love first

27. First kiss and where:  In his dorm room when we were supposed to be watching a movie… late September- early October 2002

28. How many kids: 2 – Trey Luis, born 3/31/06 and Leilani Madison, born 10/22/07

29. Hidden Talent: decorating

30. Favorite Music:  nothing that I like, rap and r&b… specifically Kayne West and I cannot stand him!

31. What I admire most about him: his love and dedication to his entire family and friends. he bends over backwards to give give give

32. Favorite past time: hanging out with his buddies playing drinking games and UM football

33. Will he read this: nope

February 26, 2009

Marriage Survey

My cousin’s fiance had this on her facebook and I thought it would be a good idea for a post. Really I’m doing it in hopes of you guys doing it in return so I can learn more about you :0)

1. When is your “engagement” anniversary: November 4, 2005
2. When is your “marriage” anniversary: March 30, 2007

3. How long have you known your spouse: 6 and 1/2 years

4. How long did you date/court before you were engaged: exactly 3 years

5. Where did you meet your spouse for the first time? At a flag football game at PBA

. What is your spouse’s full name? Luis Ramos Jr.

7. Do you have any children? Yes

8. How many? 2

9. Do you have any house pets? No, he keeps trying to buy one though

10. Do you own a house or rent: Rent, in the process of trying to buy

11. Do you live in the country or town/city: Town

12. What is one of your favorite activities together: UM football games, hanging out with friends and vacations with our kids

13. Do you have a favorite vacation spot: Probably Orlando. We go all the time and are going back in March and April

14. How many siblings (including in-laws) do you have. 1 brother, 3 sisters-in-law

15. What church do you attend: Calvary Chapel Jupiter

16. Is this the church you were married in: no, didn’t get married in a church

17. What town is your current address at: Jupiter

18. Do you work or stay at home: stay at home but it’s more of a job then anything I’ve ever had

19. Where did you go on your honeymoon: ha Orlando, wasn’t exactly the typical honeymoon. we had trey, my mom and his ENTIRE family with us. I’m thinking it’s time to plan a real one

20.Who drives when you go out together? pretty even, me if there is drinking involved always the DD

21.How long have you been together? will be 7 years this November

22. How long did you know each other before you started dating? a little over a month, but we were kind of dating through that whole time too. so basically right away lol

23. Who asked who out? He asked me for my AIM and the rest is history.

24. How old are each of you? 26 and 25

25.Whose siblings do/ did you see the most? lately, his… but really we don’t see any of them very often

26. Which situation is the hardest on you as a couple? hmmm… probably parenting

27. Did you go to the same school? same college

28. Are you from the same home town? not even close. I’m  country girl from South Florida he’s a city boy from Brooklyn

29. Who is smarter? both in different ways… but I did write a good amount of his college papers :)  

30. Who is more sensitive? seriously??? me obviously

31.Where do you eat out most as a couple? Duffy’s… my step-dad gets 50% off but we haven’t been in forever

32. Where is the furthest you two have traveled together as a couple? New York

33. Who has the craziest exes? Him I guess but he’d probably say mine.

34. Who has the worse temper? pretty even I guess

35. Who does the cooking? Me… he makes one thing and I hate it… crab legs lol

36. Who is more social? him

37. Who is the neat-freak? he wants the house to be neat but he doesn’t help keep it that way… so neither

38. Who is the more stubborn? him!

39. Who hogs the bed? him

40. Who wakes up earlier? him on week days

41. Where was your first date? well our first date was with 2 of his best friends and we went to see Red Dragon in the theater with the couch seats pretty funny… but our first date alone was to see Sweet home Alabama.

42.Who has the bigger family? immediate him, but i have more aunts and uncles and cousins

43. Do you get flowers often? not really

44. How do you spend the holidays? with my mom’s family unless we fly to NY

45. Who is more jealous? at the start, him but now there really isn’t any reason to be jealous

46. How long did it take to get serious? 2-3 months

47. Who eats more? depends on what we’re eating

48. Who does the laundry? me

49. Who’s better with the computer? probably me

50. Do you have a piece of advice for the other couples: pick your battles